Think Before You Speak Part 1

There is no way a negatives things Can Produce Positive Results Each time you open your mouth you must ask yourself, " Is what i Will say make her to have Interest in me?" Be you a politician you would have to ask yourself, "Is this speech going to get me votes or help my opponent to win?" Realize that what you can say to your best male friend, you cannot necessarily say to HER. Remember women and men are different. For you to make a long list of what to say and what not to say, here is a simple rule that will protect you 100% of the time: Keep it funny and light. There should be no negatives, no Put-downs, and No 'Heavy' Subjects. Why no negatives? Is only because they'll kill any possibility of a long-term relationship. Because negatives make you look bad and have a negative bad effect coming right back at you. Because if you don't talk negatives or get into heavy subjects, you have no choice rather than to be playful. Being playful is the proper role you should assume in a romantic relationship, and Married men forget this. When they were dating, one of the things she liked about him was that he was so positive and uplifting to be with. It seemed nothing ever got him down. Whether single or married , keep it light and keep it funny. That's what she wants and responds to. Some might think it means playing "games" or being manipulative. But On the contrary, this is the fine art of assuming the proper role. Let's face it, when you're in Rome you act as a Roman. You should assume the proper role for each situation. Does this mean that you can't be yourself? Not at all. It means you must be 'more pleasant' when you are with her. After all, it take little effort to complain about everything all the time. The only advice here is to cool it and ask yourself: "Is what I am saying going to produce a positive or negative response?" Remember you want a positive reaction. Trip the light fantastic... Your role in a romantic relationship must be playful and of a little bit of humor. The first few days lay the foundation of any relationship. In the past, before you can decide on a mate, he or she first considered the man's or woman's positives and negatives, and if there were no any negatives, he or she would choose him or her. But the woman of today has a different attitude, she looks only for the negatives to disqualify you as a potential mate. The woman disqualified you with the following reasons: She's not available, not interested, doesn't return your calls, breaks dates. You know the tricks. Now the question i want to ask you is that Why are you give her the chance or room to disqualify you. So...... Keep it light, keep it funny. No negatives, no put-downs and no heavy subjects. For more interesting articles, visit: http:// www.thegoodhealthtips.blogspot.com http:// www.makingmoneyonlineforlife.blogspot.com http:// www.datingsecrtsrevelationforall.blogspot.com