Things You Might Never Want Your Guy See You Do!

When a man thinks about a woman, he thinks in terms of perfection. The smooth skin, flawless face and sparkling smile makes him wonder how anyone can be so perfect. It would be better to let him wonder rather than enlighten him about your beauty rituals! Women’s health is not only to do with their internal organs, but much is about the external aspects. How can you be healthy with that annoying cellulite or those huge pores or even that ugly armpit hair? How exactly you look as fabulous as you do should be your secret even from your man from whom nothing is hidden. Behind the closed doors of your bathroom, you can shave, scrub and wax as much as you want but save the ignorant men the trouble of witnessing the butchery! Here are a few instances when the further your man is, the better it is for you: •During a facial examination – classifying blackheads and whiteheads might be something you’re an expert at, but surely your man can appreciate other skills you possess. He need not know about how you tackle them once you find them since he thinks they don’t exist in the first place! •In the midst of a wax – waxing is good for men to see once you’re over and done with it. He might not know that in reality your body is as hairy (or maybe even more) as his! So keep your man at bay while you’re trying to wax out clumps of hair from different areas of your body. •Dabbing on cellulite creams – for men, women’s skin is as smooth as a baby’s even if you have to splurge on expensive cellulite creams to make them feel that way! You wouldn’t want to shatter this belief by rubbing cellulite creams religiously on your thighs and butt with your man pointing out where else to put it. •When drying out a mud pack – unless it’s Halloween, you shouldn’t scare your man away by appearing before him with a mud pack covering your face. It’s not that you should only use mud packs at Halloween since they are highly essential, you should refrain from letting your man see you in the ghostly look! •Bleaching upper-lip hair – those tiny upper-lip hairs which need to be bleached every fortnight are troubling you again. This is no reason for you to do the deed in front of your man! Bleach might be mandatory but your guy needn’t see how you color your tiny mustache to a different shade. Beauty rituals such as the ones listed above and many more like them are a part of what defines a woman. They have been guarded from men over ages and you must keep up the tradition! There is nothing else that can have more disastrous consequences than letting your man take a sneak peek of you carrying out something as ceremonious as plucking your brows! Learn the art of concealing if you want be your man’s diva for life.

Why Most Men Fail To Get Girls?

Do you know why most men fail to get girls? If you know the reason, it is easier for you to get girl. I will share with you what most men do that create their failures with women. I made the same mistakes, but now, I learn t and never repeat the same mistakes. In the past, I thought that women love men being nice to them. I was very nice to the woman I like. I would do whatever she wants, and do my very best to please her. I have seen most men doing this. Being too nice to the women they like. They become women pleaser. It is true that women like to be treated nice, but not in the way most men think. When a woman sees the man trying to please her, by giving her the power to make all decisions. This is a terrible mistake. Women love to see their men make decisions. This is one of the reason women like to ask their husbands or boyfriends for opinions on their appearance and dressing. I still remembered another mistake I made which most men make too. When I liked a woman, I would try my best to let her know that I can protect her and be her Mr Right. I would do whatever it takes to convince her that I like her, and I am serious with her. I was wasting time and effort when I tried to convince her that my feelings for her is true. I would encourage you not to repeat the same mistake. You cannot convince a girl to like you. Liking someone doesn’t require logic. Emotions are not logic. Sometimes you don’t even know why you like the girl or why you like a certain thing. Trying to convince a girl to like you in a logic way is not the way. You need to work on her emotions. Emotions are triggered by what she likes. If you are the type of man she likes, you can forget about convincing her to like you. Cos she will trigger her attraction for you. This is another mistake I made, and I still see most men make this mistake too. I was thinking that by asking for a woman’s approval or permission for every thing, I am being respectful to her. I was totally wrong. Women like alpha men who can make firm decisions and believes in his decision. If you keep asking her if she likes this or that, you are ruining your chance of getting her to like you. Be an alpha man. Be confident, and make firm decision. If she has any question about the decision you make, tell her why you make the decision. If she can convince you that your decision is not right, then change it, but never change if she cannot convince you. I was spending too much money on buying gifts and food for the women I liked. Thinking by doing that, I could win her affection. I made a big mistake. Most men are like me (in the past) spending money on gifts and food. Stop wasting your money. Some women wanna make use of your feelings for her and get you to buy things for you. Stop that. What woman really wants is her man thinking of her. A gift is the symbol that he thinks of her. Never waste your money on unnecessary gifts.

Think Before You Speak Part 1

There is no way a negatives things Can Produce Positive Results Each time you open your mouth you must ask yourself, " Is what i Will say make her to have Interest in me?" Be you a politician you would have to ask yourself, "Is this speech going to get me votes or help my opponent to win?" Realize that what you can say to your best male friend, you cannot necessarily say to HER. Remember women and men are different. For you to make a long list of what to say and what not to say, here is a simple rule that will protect you 100% of the time: Keep it funny and light. There should be no negatives, no Put-downs, and No 'Heavy' Subjects. Why no negatives? Is only because they'll kill any possibility of a long-term relationship. Because negatives make you look bad and have a negative bad effect coming right back at you. Because if you don't talk negatives or get into heavy subjects, you have no choice rather than to be playful. Being playful is the proper role you should assume in a romantic relationship, and Married men forget this. When they were dating, one of the things she liked about him was that he was so positive and uplifting to be with. It seemed nothing ever got him down. Whether single or married , keep it light and keep it funny. That's what she wants and responds to. Some might think it means playing "games" or being manipulative. But On the contrary, this is the fine art of assuming the proper role. Let's face it, when you're in Rome you act as a Roman. You should assume the proper role for each situation. Does this mean that you can't be yourself? Not at all. It means you must be 'more pleasant' when you are with her. After all, it take little effort to complain about everything all the time. The only advice here is to cool it and ask yourself: "Is what I am saying going to produce a positive or negative response?" Remember you want a positive reaction. Trip the light fantastic... Your role in a romantic relationship must be playful and of a little bit of humor. The first few days lay the foundation of any relationship. In the past, before you can decide on a mate, he or she first considered the man's or woman's positives and negatives, and if there were no any negatives, he or she would choose him or her. But the woman of today has a different attitude, she looks only for the negatives to disqualify you as a potential mate. The woman disqualified you with the following reasons: She's not available, not interested, doesn't return your calls, breaks dates. You know the tricks. Now the question i want to ask you is that Why are you give her the chance or room to disqualify you. So...... Keep it light, keep it funny. No negatives, no put-downs and no heavy subjects. For more interesting articles, visit: http:// www.thegoodhealthtips.blogspot.com http:// www.makingmoneyonlineforlife.blogspot.com http:// www.datingsecrtsrevelationforall.blogspot.com

MAKING FIRST CALL

Making the First Call


I was at a large garden store the other day which had an indoor area and an outdoor area where they sell large items for the yard. Gardening bonanza Things like fountains, large pottery, huge vases, and statues. The objects are large and heavy, not something you pick up and take to the cashier.

An attractive and fit woman, about 45 years old wearing a skirt and heels was shopping. I'm guessing she was an interior designer shopping for something for her client's home. Accompanying her as she looked over some pottery was a male store employee, probably about 30 years old. He was pushing a cart where he could load any object she selected.

As I watched them, through my sunglasses while in 'stealth' mode I could see the object she really wanted to select was HIM!

What a lesson this was. This guy, good looking was just there doing his job. The woman was very excited-not about shopping-but about him. She was talking to him and smiling, touching his arm, pointing out things. But the way she was standing, the way she played with her hair, her body language, all said "come and get me".

I went on with my shopping and later saw her checking out with the cashier and he wasn't around. I left and as I got into my car she was leaving the building and walking toward her car, an SUV.

Behind her was the guy, pushing the cart with some of the objects she had bought. I sat in my car watching them in the rear-view mirror pretending like I was talking on the phone. He loaded the things in her SUV and this was the time for her to get into her vehicle and for him to return, with his cart, to the store.

I Love This, ah, plant But it didn't happen that way. Instead they stood there talking. I wish I had super hearing because I'm sure this is the part where she said something like, "So what do you like to do when you're not working...?"

And I was sure within a few seconds she would be giving him her card or her phone number and suggesting they get together. Unfortunately I couldn't hear and couldn't stay, but as I pulled out of the parking lot, turned up the steet and made a U-turn to head for home I passed them again and they were still standing behind her SUV talking. And she was still very happy to be there, looking like a teenager talking to a high-school football star.

So, let's assume I'm right in assessing what I saw, and she definitely had high interest level in the guy and he got her number with an invitation to get together soon, or maybe even tonight after work.

What should he do?

If he likes her and wants to pursue something that might be a long-term relationship, he should wait 5-7 days and call her. If he just wants to please a woman who obviously wants to have sex with a younger guy and doesn't care about a future, he should seize the opportunity. But he should also be aware that she knows where he works, and that puts her in control.

Dating & Mating Secrets ...

Making the First Call


I was at a large garden store the other day which had an indoor area and an outdoor area where they sell large items for the yard. Gardening bonanza Things like fountains, large pottery, huge vases, and statues. The objects are large and heavy, not something you pick up and take to the cashier.

An attractive and fit woman, about 45 years old wearing a skirt and heels was shopping. I'm guessing she was an interior designer shopping for something for her client's home. Accompanying her as she looked over some pottery was a male store employee, probably about 30 years old. He was pushing a cart where he could load any object she selected.

As I watched them, through my sunglasses while in 'stealth' mode I could see the object she really wanted to select was HIM!

What a lesson this was. This guy, good looking was just there doing his job. The woman was very excited-not about shopping-but about him. She was talking to him and smiling, touching his arm, pointing out things. But the way she was standing, the way she played with her hair, her body language, all said "come and get me".

I went on with my shopping and later saw her checking out with the cashier and he wasn't around. I left and as I got into my car she was leaving the building and walking toward her car, an SUV.

Behind her was the guy, pushing the cart with some of the objects she had bought. I sat in my car watching them in the rear-view mirror pretending like I was talking on the phone. He loaded the things in her SUV and this was the time for her to get into her vehicle and for him to return, with his cart, to the store.

I Love This, ah, plant But it didn't happen that way. Instead they stood there talking. I wish I had super hearing because I'm sure this is the part where she said something like, "So what do you like to do when you're not working...?"

And I was sure within a few seconds she would be giving him her card or her phone number and suggesting they get together. Unfortunately I couldn't hear and couldn't stay, but as I pulled out of the parking lot, turned up the steet and made a U-turn to head for home I passed them again and they were still standing behind her SUV talking. And she was still very happy to be there, looking like a teenager talking to a high-school football star.

So, let's assume I'm right in assessing what I saw, and she definitely had high interest level in the guy and he got her number with an invitation to get together soon, or maybe even tonight after work.

What should he do?

If he likes her and wants to pursue something that might be a long-term relationship, he should wait 5-7 days and call her. If he just wants to please a woman who obviously wants to have sex with a younger guy and doesn't care about a future, he should seize the opportunity. But he should also be aware that she knows where he works, and that puts her in control.

Overcoming Nerves, The Approach

I'm getting questions from around the world about dating and meeting women and starting a relationship.

I was born in the USA but I've traveled the world. My advice is based on years of successful experience dating American women and women from other Western countries.

While customs and social traditions vary from country to country, some things are Universal. Men and women around the world are pretty much the same. Men want sex and women want to be loved. Men respond to a sexy woman and women respond to a man who has confidence and is a challenge.

Some women insist that a man be good looking. Forget them. Have you seen the ugly guy with the babe? And she's hanging all over him? Wonder why? Because he's very confident and he's in control and she loves that! Ever see the guy who's hanging all over the beautiful babe and she's there sipping on her drink and wondering 'who's next'? You figure it out. HOW do you do it?

I'm getting questions about the approach.

How do you do it? How do you go up to a woman and meet her and ask her for her private phone number.

How do you overcome your nervousness?



Let's start with a simple fact.
You don't know her now.
So whatever you do, you can't blow it.

You can't be farther away than that.

If you don't know her, you don't know her.

If you don't know her you can't lose her.

If you don't know her she can't dump you, she can't break up with you, she can't stop dating you.

In other words, you have nothing to lose.

A good understanding of this reality is a start and should give you confidence. Absorb that and understand that you can't make a mistake.

I've been there. I've been all nervous and approaching a woman and wondering if I was going to say the right thing. I've gone in shaking and she can tell.

I once approached a woman and asked her to dance. She said, "With YOU? No thanks!"

That was a mind-shattering experience that happened years ago and I still come to think about it. But as I recollect what happened I understood what I did wrong. Two things.

First, I did not show confidence.

And second, I let her response bother me. Fact is, she was the loser. She missed out on meeting me.

I'd like to meet you but... Try this approach. You see a woman you want to meet.

You walk up to her and simply say: "I'd like to meet you but I'm a little unsure of the best approach. How would you advise me?"

If she says she's not interested, fine. Smile and confidently say, "good advice, thanks" and walk away.

If she is interested, you've set the starting point for some fun conversation. I can see it going like this:

You: "I'd like to meet you but I'm a little unsure of the best approach and I'm not really very good at this. What would you suggest?" (You can do this with a feeling of confidence, because it's true)

Her: "Well you might start by telling me your name and asking mine."

You: "Are you sure that will work?"

Hopefully, she'll get your spirit of fun and begin to have fun as you play this meeting game.

Something that starts fun, might just end up the way you want.

Remember to get her talking about herself.

But if you didn't, what do you suggest? But what if she responds to your first question with: "I have a boyfriend."

Try this: "I'm sure you do. But if you didn't, what do you suggest is the best way for a guy to approach a woman he wants to meet?"

If she gives you advice, use it right then by saying, "Mind if I try it out?" And then do just that.

Who knows what might happen. Maybe she doesn't even have a boyfriend.

Good luck.

Let Her Touch You

Face-to-Face or It's a Waste

It's been a while since I added a chapter and this chapter addresses questions that deal with communication with a woman who you want to get closer to.

A lot of guys are communicating with women by texting, IM, Facebook, Myspace, and Twitter. Everybody does it and so do you. She does it, and so do her friends. By doing so you think you're "connected." He's funny -- but I'd never date him

I say BULL! Sure you're connected along with a couple hundred other people.

You think you're special because she's responding to your texts? Because she sends you messages on Facebook? Because she lets you know what she's doing or wants to know what you're doing on Twitter? Don't believe it for a minute.

I've gotten a lot of questions that go something like this. "Hey Steve, things were going great, we were texting each other all the time and when I asked her out on a date she said, 'I thought we were friends'."

You thought you were making progress and she thought you were "friends." She thinks different than you.

Hey guys, you keep assuming she thinks like you.

SHE DOESN'T!!!!!

She thinks like a woman.

If you want to gain control you have to understand that. You have to take control and be in control and that means doing things the way you want-especially in deciding how you're going to communicate with her AND how available you are if she wants to communicate with you.

I have covered this before, but obviously the problem is more serious than I thought.

Drop all the digital and electronic communication crap and get to the personal meeting, the personal interaction and the talking face-to-face as soon as you can.

And then, when you have started the relationship keep the personal aspect going.

Wow -- he's much better in person That means be together IN PERSON as often as YOU want to. Do not fall into the impersonal cyber-world trap that everybody is in.
Sure, we think we're connected with our "friends," and we accumulate them on Facebook like little girls collecting charms for their bracelet, but we're only connected on paper, or in this case on our computer screen, or iPhone screen.

You want to be connected?

Nothing is better than sitting across from the woman of your dreams and looking into her eyes and enjoying listening to her talk as she touches you.

Accept no substitutes. If you're sending her a message it should be "call me."

If she texts or Twitters or Facebook messages you "What are you doing now?" Your response should be something like "Can't tell you now, call me." Or how about this response? "Later."

If you can't get to her the way you want, make her come to you.

If she doesn't, move on to the one who does.

If you like her and want to see more of her and want to be with her in person, you must take control. If you don't have control at the start it will be hard to get control.

Afraid you might lose her using "Steve's Method"? Well if you do, I say you didn't have her anyway. You can only truly build her interest in you as a person. Human to human. That's the only time she can touch you, when she's there.

I'm so glad we met Sure, you can create an element of mystery through digital communication but the only way you can build or strengthen a relationship is in person.

Not on the phone, not through email, text message or Facebook.

ONLY IN PERSON!!!

And if you insist on that you will be different than most guys out there.

Stay tuned, more to come.